Today I
am an Autism Mom, but 6 years ago the only thing I knew about autism was a news
report stating the numbers were now 1 in 250; that is all. After my son I
learned (and am still learning) so much about autism, so much in fact that I’ve
become an advocate for those with autism and an activist fighting for better
studies, better care and a better understanding of those diagnosed with autism.
My son and I are a team, we work together in this journey and boy does he work.
When he was born his father chose the name Atticus, after
Atticus Finch a character in the book To kill a mocking bird. He chose this
name because in the book Atticus, to him was the perfect person and after
reading the book I understood and thought it was perfect. Today, years after
autism has come into our lives, he feels a bit differently. Now he feels that
the name is perfect because he feels that our son is turning him into Atticus
Finch.
Atticus has severe regressive autism, he was also diagnosed
as non-verbal and with this comes many difficulties. Through all these
difficulties we ourselves have changed, we have a better understanding of those
with “special needs” (I kinda dislike that term) and we have learned that what
the majority think of things like autism; simply aren’t true. Like those with
autism (or other ‘special needs’) are less intelligent, cannot understand,
cannot relate, cannot have an imagination, cannot recover, cannot be successful
in life etc. There are no cannots in this house, we have dropped ‘mainstream’
falsities and we all strive every day to work through the things we were told
cannot be done.
Although my views are that as a parent and not a person with
autism, I understand a lot of what people with autism are experiencing. I owe
my son and other with autism for this; if not for you I would only know the
technicalities and not the personal experience. The world is seen in a whole
new light now because of understanding. I hope that my posts will help other
parents, I hope that other parents who have a child on the severe end of the
spectrum to see past all the gloom and heartache and above all I want to give
parents hope. Hope that not all is lost, that the mainstream knowledge of
autism is outdated and that ‘recovery’ is possible.
I can promise one thing with my posts; I don’t hold back. I
will tell you like it is without skipping the bad stuff. I will challenge your
ideas about autism, medicine and mainstream.
My name is Nicole and I am an Autism Mom
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